Do looks really matter, or should personality be enough? We have a lot of fun. My issue is I don't know if I'm that attracted to her physically. As a person, she’s perfect, she’s everything I wanted in a partner so I just, well, settled. You can think a woman is really attractive, but if you go up to her and realize she’s a bumbling idiot who you have nothing in common with, your probably not going to be that attracted to her anymore. We think about all sorts of things based on our personal wants and our past experiences. On the flipside I've been with women that I was very physically attracted to that had rude personalities. All those doubts created chipped away my interest in her leaving me still physically attracted to her, but not wanting to explore anything more than just that with her. When you want to give a new guy a chance, it can be hard if he ticks all the boxes except physical attraction. I'm sorry but if you plan on spending your life with a woman you need to not only be in love with her personality but you need to also have that attraction to her physically. I love her, but I’m just not physically attracted to her. Its possible if that’s your choice, but there’s nothing wrong with liking someone base on attraction either. We explore or get to know her. I don't have super high standards, but she has to be at least kinda cute to me and have a good personality. When you're with the right person, I don't think you'll tell a bunch of people that she has fat on her face unless you absolutely cannot avoid it. 4.. “Physical attraction isn’t all about appearances I’d say it’s all about connection. His personality was what initially drew me to him: He was laid-back, incredibly patient, and funny in an endearing, self-deprecating way. Its just where a person is at whatever stage in life they are in. I never was, I mean, our sex life is decent and I don’t have any problems but she’s not what I wanted physically. So, if you aren’t experiencing the level of physical attraction toward your love interest that you would like, hold tight—you can get there. Personally personality can override "unattractiveness" if it isn't anything specific, which it doesn't seem to be from what you have said. I started dating her mainly because I love her personality and she is very nice and pleasant to be around. 3 Proactive Tips for Improving Your Physical Connection. Not because you're not attracted to her, but because I think she deserves to be with someone whose feelings for her are such that they'd motivate a more careful expression of what you're saying here. She's not usually the type of woman I go for. But at the same time I know I'm completely attracted to her personality and who she is as a person. If she isn't physically attractive to me and her personality doesn't connect with mine then I can't really force it to work. Well if you to do plan on having a serious relationship, and if you too are talking about marriage, now would be a good time to stop the relationship. We feel. But just talking to her is great, she’s funny, we have some similar interests. If you aren’t physically attracted to your love interest, you don’t just have to sit around and wait for that physical connection to develop. You’re not a terrible person, I’d say like 99% of the world’s population has been emotionally attracted to someone or attracted to their personality but not physically attracted to them at one point or another. If it's something staring you in the face every morning and night and you just can't get over it, then I get where your coming from, but from the girl you have described, I don't understand how you can have this issue. This a generally how it happens for guys. 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